We all tend to doubt ourselves from time to time, especially when we’re dating. So what you can do you if you’re riddled with self-doubt and shrinking confidence when it comes to dating?
OBSESSION ISN’T JUST THE NAME OF A MEN’S COLOGNE. When you’re getting ready to go on a date, you could become obsessed with what you’re wearing, how your make up looks and what your date will think of you, but why? Ease the feelings of self-doubt by reinforcing positive statements about the way you’re dressed and how beautiful you are. Use phrases that give you strength and confidence, instead of talking yourself into a doubting frenzy.
KEEP IT IN PERSPECTIVE AND IN YOUR PANTS. You’re dating and having fun. That’s all. You’re not out to interview every guy who crosses your path for the role of Husband-To-Be. You’re going with the flow and seeing where this whole dating thing takes you. So don’t doubt yourself, girl. Have fun instead!
BURY THE HATCHET…WITH YOURSELF. Don’t beat yourself up about the state of your dating life. If it’s ho-hum, that’s okay. Instead, bury the hatchet with yourself. After all, no one else can love you until you love you.
FOCUS ON YOUR DATE, NOT YOUR DOUBT. Here’s a great trick for easing self-doubt on a date. Focus on the guy you’re dating. Check out his face, his hands, what he’s wearing and what he orders for dinner. Keeping your mind on him will keep you mind off your self-doubt.
DATING IS NO BIG DEAL…REALLY. It’s going to take some time out on the dating scene before you find Mr. Right, so take it easy. You’re going to click with some guys and not with others. Don’t doubt yourself because you don’t make a love connection with every guy who asks you out. - by Tasha Joseph
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